Helping vs. Enabling

Helping vs. Enabling

I have a sweet memory of one of my toddlers waddling over to me, putting their hands up and saying, “Hold you.” This melted my heart as I willingly bent over to pick him up. If my 3-year-old granddaughter is trying to pick up a suitcase that weighs more than she does and she turns to me and says, “Help me,” it puts a smile on my face. She doesn’t really want my help, she needs me to do it. It is beyond her capabilities.

A Prayer for the One Ashamed of Her Bank Account

A Prayer for the One Ashamed of Her Bank Account

Jehovah Jireh—the God who provides, You know. Maybe she can keep it a secret from some. From her parents, her friends, her children, her pastor. Her husband, even. Maybe she can bury the credit cards in the bottom of her wallet. Stash her passwords in a place no one looks. Keep the lights on and the water running and the table set.

God’s Spirit in Times of Change

God’s Spirit in Times of Change

It’s June and the beginning of summer is right around the corner. We see early spring wildflowers stop blooming, trees expanding, and the focus is slowly turning to summer vegetation. I don’t have a lot of experience gardening, but I am very interested and have even taken a class here and there to have somewhere to start when I have my own home. Something I learned recently …

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I am not my mental illness (and neither are you)

I am not my mental illness (and neither are you)

I may be a person who struggles with mental illness. You may be, too; or you may be a person who loves someone who struggles in this way… If I’m not careful, I can start to live as though ADHD, depression, anxiety, etc. are not just the result of living with a brain that feels the effects of a fallen world, but an unshakeable part of who I am. Haga clic abajo para leer en Español.